Posted in Get The Girl!, tagged courage, dating, rejection on January 29, 2013| 6 Comments »
“Do you believe in love at first sight, or should I walk by again?”
No, just kidding. That’s not it. When I first started approaching girls (click here to read about it), I started to obsess over the perfect pickup line. Every guy and his sister gave me their unsolicited opinion on the matter, and not knowing any better, I tried everything. There are really too many lines out there to discuss them all, but aside from just complimenting the girl, most utilize one of the following angles…
Posted in Get The Girl!, tagged dating, discipline, journey, marriage, quote on November 27, 2012| 2 Comments »
当たって砕けろ
“Go collide and smash into pieces.”
-Japanese proverb
Recently, many of my friends have either gotten married, gotten engaged, or have indicated that their relationships are heading in that direction. While that’s all well and good (I would love to get married myself), many of them have already begun to turn soft. Why does this happen? Since when does being in a serious committed relationship give one permission to get fat, get lazy, and stop kicking ass? Since when is security and stability a reason to lose one’s killer instinct?
Posted in Get The Girl!, tagged courage, dating, decisions, interpersonal, rejection on November 26, 2012| 7 Comments »
“You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.”
-Wayne Gretzky
I still remember it well…
Friday night. I’m in the middle of another move having just spent the last 5 hours assembling furniture, when Jake suggests a night on the town.
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Posted in Get The Girl!, tagged dating, how to, interpersonal, kiss, story on July 15, 2012| 2 Comments »
First, draw lips on your hand and practice. Just kidding. This post isn’t about the actual mechanics of kissing, but rather how to successfully plant that first smooch on your sweetheart-to-be.
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Lower East Side, New York City
I’m on the dance floor at La Caverna, absorbed by the loud music and spinning lights. I feel like a wooden puppet, animated by the energy streaming through me. Halfway across the room, I spot a slender brunette with a doll face–just my type. I basically like 2 kinds of girls: ones who look adorable, and Katy Perry. Her eyes lock onto mine drawing my body toward her like a helpless lamb being led to slaughter. I grab her hand as our dance rhythms begin to meld. Her eyes are glued to mine like sticky taffy. I can’t help myself. I go in for the kiss.
Posted in Get The Girl!, tagged dating, interpersonal, mistake, peace of mind, philosophy on April 27, 2012| Leave a Comment »
The #1 Mistake Men Make When Wooing Women
Or: The Frequent Flub Females Bring About While Fishing for Boyfriends
It is an all too common mistake. Many of my friends have admitted to making it. And I’ve been guilty of it on many an occassion. Unfortunately, once made, it becomes a recipe for heartbreak. So what is this heinous mistake?
Trying to change who you are for a particular woman.
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