She’s hot. Smokin’ hot. She’s the most attractive girl you’ve ever been with and she knows it. She will use all manner of temptation, of provocation, of seduction to distract you from your purpose.
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Don’t Let Her Distract You
Posted in Get The Girl!, tagged dating, purpose, superior man, temptress on August 21, 2013| 2 Comments »
What’s the Rush?
Posted in Get The Girl!, tagged balance, dating, patience, peace of mind on June 30, 2013| 4 Comments »
Astoria, New York
We stepped out of the fluorescent-lighted restaurant and onto the lamplit sidewalk. The temperature that night was mild. I grabbed her hand as I hurried her along to the Bohemian beer garden. She had never been, so I was eager to show her. We’d have to be quick, I thought, if we wanted to make it to the dessert café before closing time.
How to Not Be Self-Conscious
Posted in Step Up, tagged charisma, confidence, courage, dating, how to, interpersonal, philosophy, writing on February 19, 2013| 5 Comments »
Of course some degree of self-awareness is natural, but if you are stuck inside your head more often than you would like, unable to express yourself authentically and unabashedly to others, then here are a few ideas you may find useful.
1) Let yourself ease into it. Whether early in the morning at work or early in the night at the club, take it easy. Even if everyone around you is already chatty, laughing, having fun, and you feel like you don’t belong, still give yourself time to shift gears into social mode. You don’t have to go racing out onto the track from the get-go. Realize that most people need time to warm up the engine, as it were, before they can go for a spin.
What to Talk to Girls About
Posted in Get The Girl!, tagged charisma, confidence, dating, peace of mind on February 3, 2013| 14 Comments »
If you’ve read my post “The Best Pickup Line Ever,” you might wonder about the follow-up to which I alluded. That is, what do you actually talk to girls about? If you can answer that question with confidence, then by all means, keep doing what you’re doing. I’m just a regular dude who has his own opinion on the matter.
The Best Pickup Line Ever
Posted in Get The Girl!, tagged courage, dating, rejection on January 29, 2013| 6 Comments »
“Do you believe in love at first sight, or should I walk by again?”
No, just kidding. That’s not it. When I first started approaching girls (click here to read about it), I started to obsess over the perfect pickup line. Every guy and his sister gave me their unsolicited opinion on the matter, and not knowing any better, I tried everything. There are really too many lines out there to discuss them all, but aside from just complimenting the girl, most utilize one of the following angles…
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