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Getting Older

Michelangelo's David

Yesterday was my birthday and I just turned… older. Unless you’re a child anxious to grow up or a senior looking to break a century, most people don’t actually look forward to the irreversible accumulation of years. It means slower metabolism, wrinkles, hair loss in places you should have hair, and hair growth in places you should not have hair.

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A golf ball

So I started taking golf lessons recently. My first thought was, “My god, this is an expensive hobby.” My second thought was, “Good god, this is an expensive hobby!” And my third thought was, “Why am I so bad at this?!” I had no idea I could actually be so inept at something at which I thought I was fairly adept. I spent an entire lesson trying to achieve a single proper swing with an 8-iron club. Even by the lesson’s end, I was unable to make the needed corrections to my form. Searching for encouragement within my demoralized brain, I came upon the legendary Bruce Lee.

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New Domain Name

Gears in motion

Hey guys,

I’ve been busy doing a lot of behind-the-scenes work on my blog, including now, a new domain name!  Please update your bookmarks and watch as my blog climbs back up to the top of Google’s search engine ranking.

I’ve also been busy working on my life: losing weight, social and career networking, exploring Los Angeles with my girlfriend, etc.  But don’t worry, I’ll be back soon with many more posts for you guys!

Love

A. T. Bui

Your Final Need

Stone spiral

This is a follow-up to my previous post, Live a Life of Balance.

Assuming you already live a life of balance, you may find that you still yearn for something else. Most needs, though essential to your happiness, are inherently self-serving. You seek to fill areas of your life in which you perceive a lack. But what happens when your life is full, when your needs have already been met? That is when you become aware of one final need, a need that is inherently selfless. It may not be necessary to bring happiness to your life, but it is certainly necessary to give it meaning. It is: the need to contribute.

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Live a Life of Balance

A balanced stack of stones

Many years ago I had what I like to call “My best summer ever!” It was a period of 2 months where despite having no girlfriend, I felt a deep sense of happiness. In fact, my level of joy was so unprecedented and pervasive that I felt compelled to ask myself, “Why am I so happy anyway?”

The answer I uncovered was a series of needs that I had been meeting on a consistent basis…

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