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Upgrade Your Morning Ritual, entry 1

I started writing a piece entitled “Upgrade Your Morning Ritual” when I first started my blog almost a year ago, but as many times as I went back to it, I could never finish.  The reason being, I don’t post any advice that I can’t myself follow most of the time.  After lunch, my day is usually great as I’ve gotten quite good at turning my day around, even if I started off on the wrong foot.  But I often ask myself, “Why can’t I start my day off on the right foot?!”  Upgrading my morning ritual has been an enterprise into which I’ve consistently put effort and at which I’ve consistently failed.  Since I started working, my typical morning has looked something like this:

1. Hit the snooze button until doing so yet another time would make me late for work.

2. Curse myself for not sleeping earlier the night before.

3. Rush through brushing my teeth, showering, and getting dressed.

4. Skip breakfast at home and rush to work.

5. Buy unhealthy fast food next to work and down it in less than 2 minutes (no exaggeration).

6. Feel a little off the entire morning because of my hurried pace.

The only element that I have fairly consistently upgraded is breakfast.  Because my finances have been tight over the past couple of months, I have been making breakfast the night before from leftover groceries.  You might call it a blessing in disguise.  There are so many other things I want to change about my routine, but I realize that transforming myself from night owl into early bird will be more difficult than I had envisioned.  Rather than overhaul my entire morning ritual all at once, which has previously proven futile, I’m going to focus on improving only one thing each week.  So starting tomorrow, I will wake up 5 minutes earlier each day to make my bed.  If an upgrade to your morning ritual is also long overdue, then start this with me and together we can build a better morning brick by brick.

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My New Favorite Song

Has anyone heard this song?!

Gym Class Heroes (feat. Ryan Tedder) – The Fighter

If you haven’t, go listen to it!  I heard it on the radio today and it is simply amazing.  It is the kind of song that gets me motivated to do the things I know I should do, but don’t feel like doing.  A song that resonates with you can instantly create an emotional high.  And during such a high, you ought to pay attention to what your emotional state becomes associated with.  If not, it will become associated with something automatically–the person you’re with, your environment, a particular object, or even a particular thought.  This is often how couples find “their song.”

That’s all well and good, but if you’re aware of this process, you can take control of it, consciously associating it with a personal goal, for example.  Don’t underestimate how powerful this can be.  For most of my life, I’ve had very poor study habits.  In college, I used to wait until the morning of a midterm or final to tear off the shrinkwrap on my textbook, and begin studying then.  But for my Optometry Admissions Test, I was actually able to prepare a month in advance, putting in 8 hours a day thanks to Eminem’s “Till I Collapse” and Madonna’s “Die Another Day.”  I listened to it almost every 90 minutes of every day during my study sessions.  That may seem a bit excessive, considering how psychotic it made me, but you have to understand: I was really freakin’ lazy!  And that’s what it took to keep my nose to the grindstone.

Anyway, great song!  Go listen to it.  It will make your day.

Love

A. T. Bui

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With my move from New York to California, and now from Orange County to Los Angeles, my finances have been very tight.  However, a few months back my friend and I made a $50 bet that in 10 weeks I would get a 6-pack (which I’ve never had) and she would lose 15 pounds (which she’s been really wanting to do).  To prevent ourselves from sabotaging each other with “random” gifts of cupcakes and beer, we agreed that the $50 wager would go to a charity of our choice.  Needless to say, we both lost.

With the subsequent chaos in my life during this period, I forgot about the bet until tonight while I was reading the news.  One year ago on March 11th, 2011, Japan suffered a devastating earthquake, tsunami, and nuclear crisis.  The World Bank estimates damages of $235 billion dollars, making it the most expensive natural disaster in history.  My $50 donation has gone to the Save the Children Federation, earmarked for the Japan Earthquake and Tsunami.  I chose this charity because hey, it’s for the kiddies.  And unlike the American Red Cross (for example), they have made a commitment to use the designated funds for what I have chosen only, rather than whatever they deem to be  important.

If you want to contribute also, but want it to be quick and painless, you can go through Network for Good by using this link here.

Love

A. T. Bui

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On Vacation!

I just wanted to drop a quick note to tell you all that I won’t be updating my blog for the next 2 weeks because I’ll be on vacation!  I’ll be back before you know it with updates.

Love

A. T. Bui

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Moving On

A moving truck in a tunnel

It’s official:

I’m moving back to California at the end of this week.

A good friend of mine once said she felt thankful whenever moving was painful.  Because it hurts, you know that you met people who were important to you and had experiences that were meaningful to you.  And that is a beautiful thing.

I’ve spent the last six and a half years of my life here and I’m finally ready to move on.

Goodbye New York.  You will be sorely missed.

Love

A. T. Bui

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